At risk of sounding like a b***h, one thing that annoys me about my husband is that he's an selectively obsessive 'organizer'.  He spends hours organizing drawers and closets, the ones we don't use often, instead of helping me with the kids laundry, bathing the kids, cooking, the dishes, homework, etc..

Don't get me wrong, I love the finished product of his obsession but I would LOVE to have his help with other things more.. at the time. You know?