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31DBBB Need Reciprocal Twitter Support for All Members

Started by Kim , author of Money and Risk - Business and financial management resource for women and minori 7/22/2010 5:36:59 AM

Hi everyone,

I'm speaking out on behalf of quieter members about something that bothers me greatly.

We're doing the blog challenge to improve ourselves but we're also doing it as a group and EVERY group member deserves reciprocal support on Twitter.   

I've been seeing tweets between people frustrated about the fact that they've followed 500+ Twitter profile because of this challenge and they have barely gotten any reciprocal follows. 

This is a terrible habit and it happens not just here but in many of the other groups outside of Blogfrog. 

Those of us who are on the Tweepml list are getting the benefit of being followed by everyone who comes later.  Please make the effort to check your Twitter every day and follow back the 31DBBB people. 

If you want to make it easier, check the Tweepml every couple of days and click follow all to make sure you don't miss any new people.

I know in my case that even the group leaders don't follow back.  Why?  Because Nirvana Mama is the only one who has "walked the talk" for me. 

This is extremely important for this group to do this task because if you don't, it negatively affects our members. 

1)  When a blogger is trying to monetize, one of those unwritten stats that they are reviewed on is Twitter ratio.  An acceptable ratio is 1.5:1.  This means that if you are following 150 people, you should have at least 100 followers. 

For someone in my case, I have enough weirdos and bot twitters (I don't follow those followers) that followed me for me to take the hits from 150 people who don't follow me back. 

For some of our newer members, they just went from 200 follows to 700 follows and they started with 20 followers and now are at 60 followers.  700:60 is not a good ratio for them.  It will take them a tremendous amount of time to build up enough outside followers to offset all the SITS members who are not reciprocating. 

It is also not good for them to suddenly stop following those new people because Twitter doesn't like that sort of behaviors and they may accidentally get banned.   It would take them literally months to slowly unfollow in order not to cause problems. 

2)  Our challenge is about building a better blog.  Part of that is having a dialogue with your followers and audience.   You can't have a conversation when it's a one way street. 

When people who are part of your community is reaching out, the polite thing to do is to accept and make sure you have a way of seeing what they have to share.

Note:  I'm not trying to start any drama.  I believe that most people don't know how the Twitter situation can hurt someone else.   This discussion is to let the group leaders and the rest of the community know that I've seen quite a few frustrated tweets that they don't see because I'm following back everyone from 31DBBB.

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Reply by Stacy

author of Grow With Stacy.com 7/22/2010 10:38:41 AM

I wasn't aware of the Tweepml list, I just added everyone! Also, I always return a follow!

@growwithstacy


Holly,

As someone who's more experienced than us with managing Twitter, are there tools and techniques that you use to manage those 8000 followers? 

I was drowning at 200 until I figured out lists and gave myself permission not to have to read every single tweet.  Now I participate when I happen to be on and reading or checking my special lists. 

I also use @ and DM to keep conversations separate and easily seen from the masses of tweets.  They're separate columns in Hootsuite for me. 

Also, how do you deal with keeping spammers out of your regular stream but without blocking them.  I monitor job spammers once a week to see if there are jobs that I can pass on to someone in need.  They overwhelm my tweets. 


Reply by SuzRocks

author of SuzRocks 7/22/2010 10:40:49 AM

I've just started using twitter- I didn't know about the ratio thing, but it makes sense. 

I just went back and followed everyone who is following me (thought it did that automatically or something).  But I have to say that I am VERY overwhelmed with all these people that I don't know.  I have to get to 'know' them one by one via their blog before I feel like I can interact with them on twitter with any meaning. 


I gained SO many followers, that I hadn't had time to go through and follow them back. I'm on it!


Suz, I don't try to get to know everyone.  It's impossible. 

How I manage it is that when I have free time, I'll read the tweets from a particular list.  (it's like surfing the web.)  If something jumped out at me, I'll tweet back or retweet or direct message. 

Over time (lots of time) you slowly, unconsciously recognize that you gravitate toward certain people's tweets all the time.  When that happens, I move them to the must list so I can keep track of them all the time.  Some profiles are there on day one for me because I'm following them for a particular reason.  (Like Glee)


Thanks for the info.  I've had such a huge number of followers, and since my time is very limited, I haven't been totally on the ball with it.  I do check my twitter follower emails, and try to follow a few everyday.  It is something to think about, and since it is a community thing we've got going, it is only fair to reciprocate.  ;)


Great discussion everyone!

I have nearly 1000 followers and how do I keep up?

Simple answer: I don't.... but I don't have to

Let me explain. Think about twitter as a cocktail party.

You walk in, look around and start a conversation with someone. Do you try to get everyone to catch you up on all the conversations you missed before you got there? NOPE! You just sorta walk in, start mingling and leave when you're ready.

While you were there, some people you talked to A LOT, some a little and some not at all. Next time, maybe you'll talk to new people too.

That's how I see it. It's a party you keep returning to and every time you go there, you'll talk with different people (and continue to build stronger relationships with those you already know).

Also, I can't survive on Twitter without two things: a service likeTweetdeck or Hootsuite AND Twitter lists. Put people in lists (you can keep them private) and then use TD or HS to view your Twitter feed. It'll let you have separate columns for different things like lists. On mine, I have my home feed (everyone), then my faves (private), Carolina tweeters, Outdoor/Travel tweeters, etc. My local twitterers are my top priority (i.e. if I have 5 minutes I go there first) but I do check my home feed and talk with people on a regular basis... sometimes those people move into my faves. :-)

Finally, I saw some people I tried to follow use TrueTwit to validate I'm not a spammer. Sorry but I just refuse to bother with that. I look at it from a "customer" perspective. You need to make it easy to do "business" with you. If you make me jump through hoops to make it easier on YOU, then I'm not gonna. Picture that as a new business you want to patronage, If they made you do something extra just so you could do business with them, would you bother? That's up to you but my answer is no.


Kim- I imagine that's annoying to have your stream flooded with something you can only need every once in a while. Can you create a separate twitter account where you just follow those "job spammers." In Hootsuite you can manage two accounts- it'll just be a tab you switch over to. Maybe that will help!


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Kim said ...
Also, how do you deal with keeping spammers out of your regular stream but without blocking them.  I monitor job spammers once a week to see if there are jobs that I can pass on to someone in need.  They overwhelm my tweets. 


Yes, what a great points to make!

I know I was left out of the oriningal lists. And I was wondering if it as since been updated.

Do you think you can re-post the updated lists so everyone can follow the people who were not orignally on the list.

I am following everyone as well, but it would be great to be followed back!

Thanks.


I just noticed that I still have not been added onto the lists. I filled out the form, but do not see me on. Can I be added please?

Thanks so much!

 

Sorry, I tried deleting this but, I could not figure out how to do it. I just found myself on the third list...thanks!


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