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Reply by Tammy and Parker
author of Praying For Parker
11/7/2009 1:22 PM
I think you handled it perfectly! My way of thinking kinda goes like this:
I always tend to give kids the benefit of the doubt. They are kids and this may be their first experience with anyone that is different. Plus, I figure if I can make a positive impression on them while they are YOUNG, then have the battle has been won.
With adults, I try and remember that sometimes things come out wrong. Before I had Parker I had no clue as to people first language. If my sweet friend hadn't modeled it for me in such a teaching and loving way, I'd still be clueless. If she would have made some kind of sarcastic retort that may well have put me off of ever trying to be a part of her child's life for fear of 'messing' up again.
But, rudeness is something totally different. I tend to not tolerate rudeness no matter what the situation. I think looking that cashier in the eye and speaking truthfully was the right way to go.
Tammy and Parker
www.prayingforparker.com
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