My son that is probably going to be diagnosed as autistic is still too young to know...
But, I do have a son that we think is dyslexic, although the schools refused to even test until he is 8 (he just turned 8 this summer). However, i am pulling him out to homeschool this year.
I am sure it's going to be a struggle, but hopefully I will be able to find a way to help.
Have you thought about contacting a local autistic association and see if there is anyone there that can give you pointers?