I was wondering about this book. I've seen it many times at our local christian book store. I have three kids ages 17, 15 & 4. The 15yo gives us more issues than the 17yo did. I was thinking of getting this book to help us out. So i'd love to see the feedback from other parents that have read or is reading this book.

I have 2 kids boy almost 14 and a girl almost 4.  So I get to do the toddlers and teenagers at the same time.  I read the book and loved the concept.  I guess the only problem is me.  Consistency isn't my strong suit at bedtime when my daughter is screaming.

Nicole-I definitely think the book is valuable. But it isn't an overnight solution or a quick fix to parenting. The author outlines a simple strategy for changing bad behavior, but it IS NOT EASY. I think Mom and Dad must be on the same page. And consistency is key. But it truly works! 

Melissa,

Hi Angela,

It absolutley works.  Because of some fertility issues and multiple misscarriages (12)  it took us a long time to have Syd.  Because of the age difference and the issues we have spoiled her way too much.  She is a beautiful sweet child don't get me wrong, but she is very strong willed and tends to think the world revolves around her.  I have know idea where she gets that from since I have been trying to get her to understand the world revolves around me ;-).  Anyway long story short my husband and I have made a huge mess and it won't be cleaned up by Friday but we are definatley on the way.  As for my teenager, he is great, responsible, thoughtful, and loving.  But as he gets older we are dealing with the attitude problem here too.  He is more passive aggressive than my little one so it is more in his tone than his actual words or actions.  I'm sure hormones are playing a part in this but my husband and I don't let this excuse fly.  I have told him that his actions and moods are his decision and whatever decision he makes will dictate the decisions we make.  He has been exercising a lot more control.

For our family, the 17yo breezed right through puberty w/o any issues.
when my 15yo went through puberty is was during the time my grandfather was dying of cancer (quickly). i think all the emotions a kid goes through just totally built up in him & he got lost. he talks backs & thinks he has the right to.
and the 4yo...when mommy & daddy say no and she REALLY wants it and starts to throw a fit the teenagers give it to her. They say, "We just want her to shut up"...and then they complain that she is spoiled...ya think??

by the way Dr Leehman has a new book out.  Have a New Husband by Friday.

I think I need to get this book so I can better join this conversation but it sounds great.  I am struggling with some issues like talking back and my middle daughter is having some bedtime issues too.  Does it really  cover all that?

We'll have a LIVE discussion again at 1:30 PM CST today. I can't wait to start digging into the practical tips/parenting instruction of this book. You don't have to own a copy to participate, but I will tell you I think it's the best $10 I've ever spent!