Reply by quinnschilling
11/30/2009 7:16:31 AM
Oh, Kim--that sounds like the mastitis was horrible! I had a friend who dealt with that and it was upsetting...she had cabbage leaves everywhere and was so sore. I almost cried! (And, I'm sorry to say, I did not help much) You know, I think it can make a big difference if you have someone who is really trained to help--not to make you feel guilty, but who has a knowledge of how to overcome some of the nursing issues. I've also had friends who went through crazy trouble to try to pump and work and get the milk to the baby. I think it would be silly to say that nursing is easy for everyone...hey, I said that, didn't I?
Sorry. It can be difficult. And, no mom should feel guilty! Being a mom is complicated enough. I do say when it works it is lovely! And, many issues can be helped with the right person helping. If I was pregnant at the moment, I really would try to get in touch with someone I trusted as like a buddy to help with it--so If I started to have trouble from the beginning, someone could be there, with supports (besides Husband--my husband is great, but he had no idea how to get a baby to latch on:) I was lucky my mom had some training in problems with nursing--spoiled, I think now!