I am new to blogland, so I don't know a whole lot, but I have noticed at times someones blog listed on the side and then come back later and that persons blog not be there.  I just wondered if maybe they show up randomly??  I don't know.  Do you think this could have been what happened??  I know I follow a lot of blogs and I have been meaning to list the ones that comment the most to my blog on the side, but I haven't done that in a long time,so I am not familiar with the options as to how you list them.  I guess I am just wondering if there is some way that some of them show up one day and then the next others show up??  Are you totally confused now??  LOL. 

Well, I figured it all out. I ended up asking her "why?". What did  I have to lose....other than looking silly ;) I decided that I could deal with that.

I'm so glad that I came out and asked. She had deleted my link because I had gone private :)

Thanks for you input Lori!

I would definitely email her and ask her what's up, because you deserve to know!