This is an excerpt from my blog post, “Classroom Management: 23
Psycho-Educational Tips for Correcting and Redirecting Behavior.”
You can read the complete article, plus 50+ articles in
psycho-education and in alternative teaching techniques for
students with low academic skills on my blog, “The
Psycho-Educational Teacher.”
- Disapprove the behavior, not the child. Avoid using messages
that refer to the child’s character, for example, “You are always
messing up” or “You never listen to anyone!” In these kinds of
messages, words like “always” and “never” imply the notion that the
child’s behavior is an inherent trait, like having brown eyes, and
it is not going to change.
- Use eye contact, say the child’s name, and use pleasant
words.
- Stay cool, do not display emotion, and remain calm and
business-like.
- Stay close to the child (at a desk’s length), avoiding giving
reprimands across the room.
- Begin on a positive note. Before correcting the child, let her
know what she did that you like. For example, “Wow, you worked hard
to wipe your desk clean. All that you need to do now is to remove
these small spots here.”
- Avoid vague or global statements like “This is sloppily
written” or “Be nice to Justin.” The child needs to know exactly
what he is doing poorly.
- Avoid using negative directions that tell the student what not
to do, for example, “Do not make noises” or “Do not hit other
children.”
- Describe what you want the child to do in positive terms. Use
positive wording, that is, telling the child what he should do
rather than what not to do. For example, “Raise your hand to talk”
instead of “Do not call out the answers.”
- Use positive direction by guiding the child towards a more
appropriate behavior. Tell the child the alternative behavior, for
example, rather than saying, “Do not color on your desk,” say, “You
can color on this paper, not on your desk.”
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