Hello. I am new to the community, but have been reading Curvy
Girl Guide for awhile now.
I need someone to talk to, and I really have no one and am not sure
what to do.
I am a 27 year old woman who just found out my partner has
been cheating on me for the past 3 months with a coworker. We
have been together for three years and live together. She (I
am gay) says she still wants to be with me and loves me and that it
has nothing to do with our relationship. She is an extremely
emotionally detached person. Her parents had a terrible
relationship growing up, she doesn't know how to express her
emotion and never gets close to anyone, except me. I loved her and
still love her. We had plans to be together forever. I am not
defending her, there is no excuse, you always have the ability to
I truly believe she still loves me and I don't know what to do.
She said she will do whatever I want- if I want to stay together
she wants to, but if I don't and I will be happier broken up, she
wants what is best for me.
To say I am heartbroken would be an understatement. I have never
ever opened myself up to anyone the way I have her.
I just need some advice, or an ear.