I see that this thread is older, but I am training my twins
right now and WOAH...is it tough. The 'twin effect' seems
exaggerated; when one does well and I am giving her positive
attention for it, the other pees everywhere to pull my attention
back. I tried training them both at the same time, and one twin is
now 100% trained... Hooray! The other twin, after 3 1/2 months of
trying, still has multiple accidents a day. Many days are a fight,
and I am having trouble keeping cool with all the accidents. She
has no problem walking around in wet undies. I have just stopped
putting panties on her, and she wears pullups full time. I need to
relax. I need a break. The stress was straining our relationship,
and I needed to let go of having them train at the same time. I
guess when she WANTS to use it, the potty will be there. I thought
persistence and consistency would work in the end....not this time!
And that's ooookkkaaaayy.