The best story I have of Christmas time from when Griffin was young was when he was in Kindergarten; his teacher had given them all a small ziploc bag of 'reindeer food' which consisted of oats and some glitter. The story was, if you spread out the food on Christmas Eve, the reindeer would be attracted to the glitter, and then have the oats as a snack while Santa filled stockings. So on Christmas Eve, we stood on the patio and sprinkled the oats in the snow outside. It was a divine moment, because right at that instant, outside near us someone began shaking sleigh bells. Griffin's eyes got HUGE and he whispered 'Santa's HERE!'. He turned and raced inside straight to bed and didn't move an inch until morning.
By the time he was 9 though, he wasn't much of a believer. Still, each year we love tracking Santa on the NORAD website, simply because it's just so much fun. (and at age 15 last year, we still giggled and tracked 'Santa') Late on Christmas Eve when he was 9, we came home from a gathering and decided to look on NORAD to see where Santa was. LO and BEHOLD!!! He was right over Minnesota, according to the website. Griffin turned and instantly headed for the stairs to go to bed.
I called after him 'I thought you didn't believe in Santa!' and his reply to me was 'Well, you can't be too careful!!'
I don't know how he learned or decided that Santa isn't 'real' as in someone who rides all over the world and slides down chimneys, and it doesn't matter that he doesn't believe in that but he still maintains that magic of Christmas, that somehow there is mystery that comes overnight on Christmas Eve and brings smiles to everyone by stuffing a large sock with gifts. It's that 'spirit' that I want him to believe in, that magic that arrives, even if it's in the form of a parent making a wish come true.
We do stockings full of little gifts, treats mostly or small items that are useful. Mike loves real licorice, Griffin loves honey roasted peanuts, I love macadamia nuts. We do things like that, little things, that mean a lot and are fun to find.