Keep It Simple and Steady!
In the last four years we have moved twice, lost my mother-in-law and one brother-in-law, had two children diagnosed with diabetes and my husband diagnosed with congestive heart failure/acute renal failure/high blood pressure/a-fib.
At first, we dropped everything, but I find that my children respond better if we have some normal activity. So, I go through, adjust our lesson plans (if it is not a hill to die on, it's cut) and we do what we can. Some days we get it all...some days we just get half, but we do have school. I also cut out field trips, they stress me out! I have to be on someone else's schedule, pack lunches and more...I would just rather be at home ;o)
Hope that helps!