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i talked to him just a few months ago but no he's not part of my life...i was 15 (17 years ago)
however the second is still a good friend

NO, my 1st was in H.S. I was a sophomore he was a senior...do I regret it...no I don't but there were a few (or more) between then and now that I would take back or at least DENY!

My first is the man I get into bed with every night.  I am so incredibly blessed by him, and our relationship!  It wasn't really a religious reason why he was my first (and only!), but more of a timing thing.  It just worked ;o).

It was my HS boyfriend and I was a good way into 16. We dated for 4 years and were even "engaged". Ahhhh, young love. My only only partner has been my husband and if I would have known then what I know now, there might have been a few more. Oh, well, maybe in my next life....

Just the hubs. I wanted to wait, and frankly the high school and college boys could not handle me anyway.

The only person I've ever had sex with is my husband. I used to hold myself in pretty high esteem over that, as I was pretty proud that I'd saved my virginity for him.

And while, of course, I'm thrilled that I did and have no regrets about never sleeping with any of my former boyfriends, it's no longer such a big deal for me. I've made plenty of mistakes in my life and have let myself and others down by my decisions. Having premarital sex just wasn't one of those times.

I do feel very strongly about not having sex before you're married, for a litany of reasons, but thank the good Lord that He loves and forgives us no matter what kinds of mistakes we make. And He doesn't love us any more or any less based on our behavior. Amazing.

I do of course realize that not everyone thinks that premarital sex is a "mistake." I'm interested to see where this discussion heads and if other people feel regret or not about their first sexual experiences.

Funny story...

My first time was with my husband-but not on our wedding night. It was actually 2 weeks after we were married!  We were SUCH virgins that we really didn't know what we were supposed to do with each other! We knew how it was supposed to work out, but getting there was a different story! Looking back now it's funny and we can laugh over it, but back then it was pretty frustrating...not to mention embarrassing! Never though I'd be sharing this with anyone! :)

We did perfect our kissing during that 2 weeks though. We decided to save our first kiss for our wedding, so that was a lot of  fun.

 Oh yes, and I think that we have gotten very good in the love making department!

Lauren, That is so sweet!

Kendra~ You just cracked me up! I'm pretty sure most guys I meet to this day still can't handle me! Maybe that's the man I should be waiting for: The one who isn't completely taken aback by the absurd things that come out of my mouth on any given day!

Andrea~ I'm with you; there have definitely been a few since the first I wouldn't mind erasing. That said, even the worst of the bunch taught me something. No regrets here, but I have noticed that as I've gotten older I have gotten more and more picky with who I allow into my bed. The standards have definitely changed, and as a result I wouldn't be surprised if the next man I slept with actually wound up being the one.

MckMama! Yay for your insight! I think saving yourself until marriage is something to be proud of. It's just not really something I was ever really taught or exposed to, and even if I had been I can pretty honestly say that I'm not sure it would have made much of a difference. I have always been a pretty curious person, and I don't like feeling like other people know something I don't know! What is it they say about curiosity killing the cat? :) Seriously though, I know I am lucky in that most of my experiences have ended fairly well and I've grown from most of them. I don't regret my past at all, but I am impressed by yours (and all you ladies who waited!)

I'm just pretty sure that had I waited I probably would have married someone by now solely to see what it was all about! That's just my personality; I don't like feeling left in the dark, and with 27 fastly approaching and no man in my life, I can't imagine if I had never taken that plunge by now!

Lauren~ I love that story! My first time was very awkward too... I'm pretty sure it is supposed to be. At least you were with someone you loved and you were learning together!

I actually got a comment on my blog from a girl in Pakistan and she said that pre-marital sex is practically non-existent over there. It had me thinking how different life would be if that was the norm here. I honestly didn't know any virgins until a few years ago when a new (and now very close) friend of mine confessed she had never had sex. I was shocked! I was almost positive that everyone I knew had to be having sex by that point. It was a choice, and lifestyle, I literally couldn't even imagine.

There were A LOT of questions that followed! 

I've had sex with two people...the father of my oldest child and my husband.